Your Best Employee Is Probably Tired of You

Your Best Employee Is Probably Tired of You by Chef David Arnold — book cover

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YOUR BEST EMPLOYEE IS PROBABLY TIRED OF YOU

How Restaurants Punish the People They Depend On Most

Listen before silence becomes a resignation.

Your Best Employee Is Probably Tired of You by Chef David Arnold — authentic published book cover
Watercolor of a restaurant manager listening carefully to a capable employee after service
A dependable employee’s silence is a reason for a conversation, not an answer.

Inside the operation

The strongest employee never complained. That was not the whole story.

Suzie is capable, dependable and the person the manager trusts when the shift falls apart. Her performance is good, her tips are good and she quietly decides to leave.

Your Best Employee Is Probably Tired of You examines the assumption that strong performance and silence mean the job is working for the person doing it.

Chef David Arnold uses a memorable management conversation to ask what dependable employees actually need—and what the operation may be overlooking because they make the work look easy.

Written for working restaurant owners, chefs and managers who need practical decisions they can put to work during an actual shift.

The book’s practical approach

Listen before silence becomes a resignation.

Question the Assumption

Do not treat good performance and silence as a complete picture of the employee’s experience.

Ask and Listen

Understand what the person values before deciding what support or arrangement will help.

Review the Management Habit

Examine expectations and responsibilities instead of relying on the same dependable person to absorb every problem.

Put the book to work

Bring the guidance into your operation.

Explore the existing companion resources and use the book’s operating guidance alongside the facts from your own restaurant.

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A Little Taste of the Book

From Your Best Employee Is Probably Tired of You

Every restaurant that has been around for a while eventually finds one of those employees. You know the kind. When the schedule falls apart, somebody calls off fifteen minutes before the shift, the dining room fills faster than expected, or the night simply starts going to hell, there is one person you can call with almost no notice who will somehow show up and help put the place back together. They do not spend ten minutes asking who else you called first, what happened, or whether there is going to be some special reward waiting for them. They hear the problem, decide they can help, and come in.

I had Suzie.

Suzie was in college and working toward a PhD in literature. She had a full scholarship, so the restaurant was not paying her tuition or keeping a roof over her head. When I hired her, she told me with complete seriousness that she basically needed drinking money. I appreciated the honesty. There are plenty of people who will sit through an interview and tell you they are looking for an opportunity to grow with the organization when what they really mean is that they need enough money to make it through Friday night. Suzie skipped the speech and went straight to the truth. The scholarship was taking care of the important things. The restaurant was financing the fun.

What I did not know when I hired her was how good she was going to be.

Suzie was one of those employees who learned quickly, worked hard, and seemed almost embarrassed by the amount of supervision some of her coworkers required. She did not need to be reminded repeatedly about the same task. She did not wander around looking for something easier to do when business picked up. She had a good work ethic, took care of the customers, and made very good tips. Most importantly, she never complained.

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About the author

Chef David Arnold

Executive chef, international foodservice operations consultant, author, instructor, and mentor, Chef David Arnold brings more than forty years of hospitality experience to practical management work. His published professional background spans restaurants, hotels, institutional catering, central kitchens, and food manufacturing.

Chef David looks at the management assumptions that can hide behind excellent performance and the value of asking a useful question early.

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Practical support

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